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What I do want you to understand is that even though I am very masculine, I have a softer side. It's amazing to me how many women find that threatening, as if they are the only ones entitled to have feelings.
This is not to say that women and men are the same. #2: Simply put, I just want someone who I am attracted to, who I have fun with, who gets along with my friends and family and that is not a constant pain in the ass.
5) Sense of humor - Make me laugh sometimes, so I don't always have to be the one doing the work. Almost any woman can become the ideal culture stereotype of what Hollywood told me was desirable (just as guys can work toward becoming the alpha male). I want to be challenged, grow and feel I am making a difference.
I want a woman who is feminine yet strong -- not in a masculine way -- but a woman who radiates quiet strength, wisdom, insight, love and compassion. We all have bad days, but If you want some context about what will drive men crazy, here you go: 1) Don't call 50 times a day to check on me... If you need something, call or text, but if I am golfing with my friends and you call and it is not an emergency, please don't expect me to be excited that you called or surprised that my phone is off.